I am not a medical doctor or even a University Graduate. I am a 27 year old woman that has been on both sides of love. You know... feeling where the whole world shuts down.... and the ultimate nightmare of realizing you are not sleeping, this pain is real.
On this blog I want to share my experiences about love and other relationships. I will blog stories and thoughts that come both from me and people in my life that share them with me.
I want to start of with a quote. "... never make someone a priority when they only make you an option."-unknown
What does that mean?
Many of us put our selves last. We seem to care more of how the other person feels about us or what they think of us, that we forget who we are. Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where you try so hard to please the other person and never step back and see if they would do the same for you. Yes. We all do it. Well its time to stop. Why you ask?
There is a voice inside of us and we don't listen. That voice that tells you " hey! what are you doing?"..."is it all worth it?"... " you know this is wrong!"... " you will hurt after, you know you will." Yet, we still do it. Its like we close our ears and eyes and run after someone... who doesn't care.
It sounds stupid doesn't it? We make excuses to ourselves over and over again, explaining the situation in our minds, how its complicated. Is it complicated? Or do we make it complicated?
Is it because it hurts to let go of something that failed? Does it go back to our childhood where we were bruised by rejection? How can we love someone if they don't love us back? Is it love? OR is it infatuation with something you can't have?
I want my blog to be a place where we can share pain and bliss of love.
This is it for now. I will blog every chance I get.
Enjoy!
DS
P.S. One day at a time.
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