Lie to me

You know those romantic nights... where the passion and desire is so strong that you just cant wait for the making love part? Most of us have experienced it...

When you are intimate with your partner ... you are in a different zone... your mind is at ease and only with the person in front of you. Its funny ... you guys have done this so many times but it feels like the first time , every time. This is love that took a lot of time to build. This is 3 years in the making. Many tears and pain...but you are still making it.

The door bell rings...

Who is at the door?

Yes... it is another girl...

His real girlfriend...

No! This is not cool! Don't be understanding! Walk out... never look back... he will only manipulate you over and over again.

He will lie...and lie...and lie...

You will believe and believe and believe...

Some men just are not able to commit... so wait for the one that can...with COUSION.

DS

P.S. One day at a time.

What is Love...

“Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous, love is never boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes. Love does not come to an end.”

- The Bible


DS

P.S. One day at a time

Do something different today

We all have a routine. Some of us do the same things for years. From getting up in the morning and hitting the shower to setting the clock at night.

Take a day off and go to the beach. Read a book that you have been staring at for the last little while. Go and try Sushi. Write a song or a poem. Call up a friend in need and try to resolve an issue together. Start writing a Blog. :) The possibilities are endless. It will help you grow and discover more about yourself.

Sometimes doing something different is a good thing.

DS

P.S. One day at a time.

Letting go takes Love

Have you ever had to let someone you love go? Not on a trip or a party. I mean ... have them leave your life because the relationship was not healthy.

Its so painful. It almost feels like someone died and the only thing that keeping you going is that they are not dead.

You know that its the right thing for both, yet somehow you still wanna bargain with God and say: "well...maybe...it could work if I just...or he just...or she just...". The truth is, you are in this situation because you are suppose be. There are reasons why you are letting go. Focusing on them will get you through it.

There will be days where all you want to do is cry and complain. And there will be days where you just feel so free. As time goes by there will be less of the bad and more of the good.


Until one day you are a beautiful free butterfly.

DS

P.S. One day at a time.

Hello is anyone out there?

So far I have had 79 views of my blog, and it only been 3 days. Its nice to know that someone is reading but no one is commenting :(. Please feel free to comment and tell me what you think of the topics. Is my writing irrational ? Stupid? Inspirational? Or just plain "blah blah I know all this tell me something I don't know..."?

My next topic is going to be about letting go of someone you love.

Stay tuned.

DS

P.S. One day at a time.

Expectations.

We all have expectations. We have them for ourselves and for everyone in our lives. We set the bar so high or so low for some people. And with some people we have no expectations.

So what happens if they are not able to reach our expectations. Did we set the bar too high? Did we set ourselves up for disappointment? This relationship could possibly end up in a disaster zone if the expectations are not met. This person is incapable of pleasing you. They give so much of them selves to make you happy that ...they loose them selves.

If you care about a person in your life and they care equally for you...lower your expectations and see what happens.

DS

P.S. One day at a time

Butterfly

I pulled into the driveway at around 5:30pm. I usually don't check the mail, but I did just because I was expecting mail. There was an envelope and YES it had my name on it. In the left corner it had my best friends name and mailing address. I smiled as soooo many thoughts ran through my mind as to what it was. I couldn't wait to open it. So I did ... as I was walking down my street toward my house. It was a card;It read:

" Just a reminder... you are special! No matter what happens, I will be here for you.
Always remember that butterflies are beautiful and free!"

Inside the card was a note. It was folded in half. It read:

" Lessons of life...

I feared being alone until
I realized to like myself.

I feared failure until i realized
that I only fail when i don't try.

I feared rejection until I learned
to have faith in myself.

I feared pain until I realized
that it's necessary for growth.

I feared my destiny until I realized
I had the power to change my life.

I feared change until I realized that
even the most beautiful butterfly had
to undergo a metamorphosis before it could fly. "

This poem summarizes everything I want to be. I recently tattooed a small butterfly on my right hip. Its something I always wanted to get. It always represented freedom to me, but now its so much more.

I am not a butterfly yet. I hope to become one someday. I have so much work to do on myself. So much truth to tell and not fear the outcome, learn to except rejection, to believe that I have the power to change what I can, and to accept the things that I can not change.

Dear friends that is for now.

DS

P.S. One day at a time.